In a world obsessed with labels, one man's extraordinary life defies categorization. Ricky's story begins with a brush with non-existence - nearly aborted, then born "illegitimately" and black in a society where neither was welcome. Advertised in a newspaper like unwanted goods, he was adopted by a Scottish couple, one with roots in apartheid-era South Africa. The stage seemed set for a life of confusion, rejection, and struggle. However, destiny had other plans through football as a player, coach, manager, president and benefactor which became his platform in life for empowerment. From the streets of Scotland to the heart of black communities in Kenya and Nigeria, Ricky's journey is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit. He navigated the choppy waters of racial identity, constantly shape-shifting to fit in-first as a black child in a white world, then as a white man seeking acceptance among black peers. This raw, unflinching memoir peels back the layers of a life lived between worlds. With unforgettable candour, Ricky reveals: The surprising blessings hidden within a turbulent childhood How he conquered adversity and turned potential vulnerability into strength The moment he realized that true belonging comes from within Illegitimately Blessed is more than a story of survival-it's a roadmap for anyone who has ever felt out of place in their own skin. Ricky's hard-won wisdom will inspire you to: Break free from societal expectations and embrace your authentic self Find purpose and meaning in life's most challenging circumstances Build unshakeable resilience and self-awareness In a time when division seems to rule, Ricky's life stands as a bridge between worlds, a powerful reminder that our shared humanity transcends all boundaries. This is not just a memoir; it's a revolution of the spirit, a call to arms for anyone who has ever longed to simply be themselves. Prepare to be moved, challenged, and ultimately transformed by this remarkable journey from illegitimacy to self-actualization. Illegitimately Blessed isn't just Ricky's story-it might just be yours too.